The Shower & God

The Shower & God

I don’t know about you, but there are certain times that my mind clears and when that happens it is eye opening.

Mowing the yard can be one of those times, but that’s only part of the year.

Often I take time to take the road less traveled in my daily commute. I get to see the sunrise over a farmers field, or the morning mist of a foggy morning.

A view of the city from some forbidden spot on railroad tracks

Other times, on the weekend I may stop and explore the city and snap a few pictures of a perspective that most people, including myself don’t see as we do our daily hustle.

It’s Easter weekend. There are two events that all Christians hold near and dear because they are the events that mark the significance, in a public way, the life of Christ.  Christmas in December is remembered as a celebration of the birth of Jesus, the son of God and son of Mary.  100% human and 100% God.

A few months later, the church calendar varies the exact date year to year, but in March or April, Easter is celebrated by Christians.  The significance of Easter is that Jesus did not die on the cross and have his body remain in the grave (or tomb) like all other humans, but he really did conquer death, the devil and according to scripture, 40 days later the Holy Spirit came on the day of Pentecost.

Check out your local Christian church or Christian friend to get more, I want to get back to the topic I started with.

On a daily basis, my morning routine is to start with a nice warm shower to wake up.  The shower I use in our home, is just that, a simple shower with a frosted glass door.

When I first turn on the hot water, (followed by the cold), before I step in the shower, a burst of cool air rushes by as the warm water displaces the air.  I’ve noticed this before but today decided to share the thoughts that came to me this morning.

 

The Shower & God.

The metaphor I experience , as a Christian, when I turn on the shower goes like this:

The warm water is like God’s Love thru his Holy Spirit that chases the cold air (or my own self-spirit out of the shower.  Physics say the capacity of the shower is finite so when the water is turned on, it pushes out the cold air that was occupying that space.

When I actively seek God’s Holy Spirit to occupy my life, it pushes out my own self desires which are replaced with His desires in my life.

I could go deeper and come up with metaphors for the soap and scrubbing clean, but for today… that’s it.

The shower has become a quiet corner in our house for me to refresh and start each day with God in thought, prayer, reflection and conversation to start each new day clean again.

What do you do that draws you closer to your creator?

 

What’s a ScLoHo?

What’s a ScLoHo?

At the end of 2016, I was preparing to launch a podcast version of the weekly articles I have been writing and  publishing on The Genuine ScLoHo website and this is the very first episode that you can also listen to. Here’s the link to this episode.   Now that we have all the details taken care of, here we go:

Kicking off a brand new year and a new dimension to this website, I thought it would be a good time to give you a bit of background information on What’s a ScLoHo? and who is this character…

This article (or podcast if you’re listening to this) is longer than they will be in the future.

First, some history. My name is Scott Howard and in the 1960’s my family moved to Fort Wayne, Indiana. In the 70’s my high school launched a radio station and that led me to working on the radio at the age of 16 part time.  After graduating, I was working full time in radio, on the radio in Marion and Kokomo, Indiana before returning to Fort Wayne where I was on the air at WMEE, owned by Federated Media.

While at WMEE I married a listener and we ended up having 3 kids, moving back to Kokomo and eventually Detroit when I was 26.  In Detroit I spent nearly 8 years at WMUZ, a 50,000 watt FM commercial Christian radio station.  This move to Detroit was my entry into the advertising and marketing world.  We would create advertising campaigns for our advertising partners and my primary job was to create these campaigns including writing and producing the ads.

I also trained others in our production department and we had a full staff of 5 commercial producers.  Eventually I returned to the air on WMUZ in Detroit, initially doing vacation fill-in and then took over the morning show for about a year.  I also spent about a year full time in sales at WMUZ before deciding to return to Indiana for family reasons.

Back in the Fort Wayne area, (actually Warsaw, Indiana at first) I worked part time on the air at country music WBTU before accepting a full time on air position at WFWI.  This was the early 90’s now and when WFWI decided to switch music formats, they asked me to move from afternoons to mornings on the new 92.3 The Fort.  I did this 6 months before I decided to walk away from radio and took a job in Warsaw where my wife and kids and I lived.

About 4 years later, my first wife and I are no longer married and my Dad had passed away so I moved back to Fort Wayne to help my Mom downsize and move forward with her life. It’s the summer of 1998 and I returned to radio full time for a few months as the program director of talk radio station WGL in Fort Wayne.  Due to unstable ownership I left full time radio again but never completely as I start doing weekends on WAJI ushering in the year 2000.

For the next 3 years I worked in a couple of different industries and to summarize, I know how to drive a forklift, manage a tool crib work in quality control and run a thermometer.   I also met and married my wife Kathy who introduced me to local coffee shops.

It was during one of those coffee shop visits that I noticed we were the only customers and outside was a guy dressed in a dirty pink chicken costume waving at passing cars.  I asked the owner what the chicken had to do with coffee and his response was, “I gotta do something”.  Clearly he was desperate to get customers.  We had a conversation about advertising and marketing and later as my wife and I were driving home, she said you ought to go back into advertising and marketing.  Apparently she and the coffee shop owner were both impressed with the common sense advise I offered.

Kathy and I talked about the pros and cons of my returning to radio.  She did not know me when I previously worked in radio and I told her about the challenges and opportunities and we prayerfully agreed to give it a go.  A few months later, in April 2003 I was hired by a group of radio stations in Fort Wayne that was known mostly as Summit City Radio as one of their advertising sales persons.

The ScLoHo name and identity was born during my 8 and a half years working at those radio stations.  It began as an email address and later when I began my online activity, it became my twitter handle and I even formed a marketing consulting practice with the ScLoHo name.

What does ScLoHo mean?  It’s pretty simple.  Even though I had never met another person with my name, Scott Howard until a few years ago, there are over 800 Scott Howard’s in the United States according to the website, HowManyOfMe.com.

If you were to Google Scott Howard, one of the top results was the character named Scott Howard, played by Michael J. Fox in the original Teenwolf movie.  While I’ve had a beard most of my adult life, I’m not a werewolf.  So I created a mashup of my first, middle and last names… If you take the first two letters of Scott, the first two letters of Louis and the first two letters of Howard, you have six letters, ScLoHo.  And it’s easy to pronounce too as a two syllable word, Sc-low, Hoe.

I jumped on the blogging bandwagon while I was still working for those other radio stations and was writing, editing and publishing articles every day on multiple blogs online.  Some of the articles were picked up nationally by the Wall Street Journal and other publications.  I was doing speaking and teaching engagements around town and around elsewhere too.  The subjects varied but the main topics were Media, Marketing, Branding and Advertising along with some on the personal side and about my city, Fort Wayne, Indiana.

2011, I was lured away from the radio stations I was working for which included WGL, Rock 104 and Wild 96 and started a full time position working for a website development firm.  It was a great learning experience and my friend and co-worker,  Kevin challenged me to tie the ScLoHo identity with my own name, Scott Howard.  See, for several years there were people who knew me as either Scott Howard or ScLoHo, but not both.  By October 2011 I was ready to consolidate all my online blogs and websites to a new domain.  Since the dot com and dot net versions of my name were taken, I bought the Scott Howard dot me domain and have been writing and publishing every single week.

By the way, after leaving the website development company I joined another radio station in town, then went to work full time for a national e-commerce company headquartered near Fort Wayne.  I managed the social media for all 5 of their brands.

In 2013, I accepted the position I have now with Federated Media.  I am a member of the WOWO radio sales team and also have all of the marketing resources available from our Federated Digital Services division.  For me it’s like a marriage of the best of both worlds that I have enjoyed… radio and online.

It was also a homecoming of sorts.  The building that houses WOWO and Federated Media also is home to other stations including WMEE where I worked on the air when I was 21 years old in 1981.  Two of my co-workers from those old days are still here too.

Over the weeks ahead, I’ll share some marketing and media insights, dip into some personal stories on occasion and pass along what I’ve learned from hundreds of others and continue to learn nearly every day.  

Questions? Answers? Thoughts of nearly any kind are welcome.  You can find me online ScottHoward.me; on Twitter @ScLoHo; on Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram and a few other places online. Just Google ScLoHo, that’s S-C-L-O-H-O and you’ll probably find more of me.  Drop me a note via email too, Scott@ScLoHo.net.

More details can be found at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User:Scloho

It’s Not WHO YOU Know, It’s Who KNOWS YOU

The last few months I’ve noticed something that may have been going on longer than just the last few months.

Here’s that something:

The number of people who know me and see me face to face in “unplanned meets” has become substantial.

Let me define “unplanned meets“.

I fill my week with planned meetings such as a business meeting, lunch meeting, or even church is a planned meeting. Other times when I see someone that I know but we did not plan on being at the same place at the same time, that’s what I’m calling an “unplanned meet“.

Not everyone you meet is real

I’ve been back in my hometown of Fort Wayne for 18 1/2 years.  But it wasn’t until 2003 that I started working in the advertising sales world in Fort Wayne. Ten years later, 2013 was when I joined WOWO Radio and Federated Media.  Part of that job is to meet people. And while I’m sure that has been part of it, there are others that I’ve been having “unplanned meets” with that are not related to my working life.

Last week I was at the Fort Wayne Home and Garden Show and had a few people come up to me and say hi.  Not the, you look familiar, but I don’t know who you are kind of hi, but folks who remembered my name and details about the last time or even first time we met.

The week before I was attending a Fort Wayne Komets hockey game and a couple people did the same.  Sometimes it’s at a place I go to regularly but just as often it’s someplace I rarely show up at.

Apparently there is some kind of momentum that happens on a personal level that is similar to the kind of momentum that most businesses want to have happen with their advertising and marketing. It’s Not WHO YOU Know, but who KNOWS YOU that makes the difference in the success of your business and also in personal lives too.

It’s not a fame thing either.  A few years ago when my sister-in-law moved to town, she remarked that my wife and I must be famous because everywhere we went, people knew us.  No, we just took her to some of our favorite spots in this city and people at those places were familiar with us.

There was a time when these “unplanned meets” were rare.  Now it occurs several times each week.  People that I have not spoken with in years, or even decades are popping up.  Sometimes they are reaching out to me on Social Media, not Face to Face but that’s a bit different.

While I’ve been talking about my personal experience today, I’m just using it as an observation.  This is not really about me… It’s about the lesson all of us can take away from this observation and apply to our business and personal lives.

That lesson is it takes work and effort to build positive relationships.  Positive relationships where people make an effort to stop and say hi & talk with you when they see you unexpectedly.  Do it enough and with integrity and one day you will see the return in ways you never imagined.  You and your company can flourish if you build it on a strong foundation.

If you want some help and guidance, reach out to me.

Facebook Hacking or Twinning?

The term Hacking or Hacked is getting a bad rap.

And a lot of times the term is misused.

Today, I have a quick tip and explanation of something lots of people call Facebook Hacking. 

(It’s not really hacking, but I’ll get to that in a moment.)

It happened to me the other day.  As I was starting my day, I got a notification that Scott Howard wanted to be my friend on Facebook.

Cool, someone with my name wants to be my friend!  But not really, because the clown looks just like me.

This should be called Facebook Twinning.

(I do know another Scott Howard in Fort Wayne and we don’t look alike.)

So, what to do, what to do…

I stopped what I was doing on my phone and powered up the laptop.

I went to the email notification and clicked on the profile name to open up the twin profile.   So far 20 minutes have passed since the FAKE Scott Howard had added a cover photo and profile picture to the TWIN account.

I posted on my real Facebook page:

This was to stop people from accepting friend request from my TWIN since it was not me, but a FAKE.

Then I reported it to Facebook and shared on my page:

Seconds later in my email, Facebook notified me that they were looking into it.

Within 30 minutes from the time the TWIN account was created, it was shut down.

When this happens to you, odds are your Facebook account wasn’t hacked.  Your password wasn’t compromised or stolen.   Mine wasn’t.

What happened is someone simply downloaded some images from your account and created the FAKE account that looks like a TWIN of your real account except it’s brand new and doesn’t have all the posts and friends and stuff that your real Facebook account has.

Why do they do this?  It is the same reason email spammers are out there.  They know that every once in awhile someone will fall for the scam and they can impersonate you, gain the trust of your family or friends (because they think they are really communicating with YOU.)

Then they can start getting personal info about your friends through those conversations and well all kinds of bad things can happen.

So, here’s what to do if you have been Twinned on Facebook.

Follow the steps I just described above.  No need to change your password in most cases since you were not really hacked.

And if you ever get a friend request from someone you are already friends with on Facebook, don’t automatically accept it. Check it out first.

 

 

 

The Mystery of Love and Other Relationships

Sunday morning, the sun is shining through the coffee shop window and the usual suspects are here, including me.

There are the families with little ones that are learning to walk and talk.

The gang that racks their brain over the crossword puzzle in the paper.

The older guys talking politics, not just national stuff but local stuff too.

Some of us are on our laptops, taking it all in.

What’s really going on here is the dynamics of human relationships.  There is nothing particularly special about this day, or place.  Similar stuff is going on all over.  It could be in churches, it could be at home, it could be at a park.

The “It” is the love.  It’s that mystery that separates us from the machines.  Sure I can type a heart in response to a Facebook post, but that’s just a symbol.  The love is human to human. And not just romantic love…

It’s between friends, it’s between family and it’s the strongest type of human relationship possible.

Saturday, I got word that my last Uncle had passed away.  Uncle Bill outlived his sister (my Mom), his wife, and his oldest daughter.  He was the last of the Uncles in my life and I have one Aunt still alive but she has been secluded for a decade after her husband passed away.

I recall that after my Dad passed away in 1998, my Mom carried on for three more years but there was a profound sadness and grief in losing her partner.

Love is a mystery and it is sought after.

With Valentines Day this week, don’t be the jerk that ignores it.  Even if you are not mushy and sentimental, the person you are thinking about right now, probably is.

I’ve been single, I’ve been married, I’ve been divorced, I’ve been (and am) married again.  I have kids, step-kids, grandkids of all ages, sizes and shapes.  I’ve been there, done that and have the t-shirt.  I have friends and acquaintances that are in one of the stages I just mentioned.  I understand.

If you’re looking for love, start with friendships.  Start with yourself.  Hang around other friendly folks.

The gang I mentioned at the beginning of this piece, at the coffee shop, didn’t meet each other and become friends due to some dating app or Facebook algorithm that told them to show up at 9am on Sunday.  It was simply an organic and evolving series of human relationships.  Shared with a beverage and a bite to eat.

In a couple of hours, I am going to meet a bunch of strangers to play cards at an event that I know very little about, but the common theme is Euchre.

Keep your eyes open to opportunities to be around people and make a point to be friendly.  Everyone could probably use one more friend.

This has been a bit of a rambling article today about love and relationships and Valentines Day and even death.  I’m not sure exactly how to wrap it up with a bow, so I won’t.

However I am planning on a new article later this week on advertising, marketing , technology and human relationships that you might love…

 

 

Sharing the Good Stuff on Social Media

In 2016 (and probably before), many of my friends noticed that their Facebook Newsfeeds was being filled divisive, argumentative and rude comments.  Some decided to abandon social media or at least attempt to filter out the negative and return to the days of cat videos and food posts.

But despite all the noise, Facebook, (and other social media channels) is still being used to share Good Stuff.  I’ve been following the journey of a friend of mine in Indianapolis that has been through quite a trial.  The story of my friend Chris is really the story of his family and specifically his daughter Emme.

Emme and Chris from 2016

Over the weekend the Indianapolis Star newspaper shared a bit of their story which you can read here. Emme is just 4 years old and…

In her four years of life, Emme Theisen has known few days without pain. The pain exhausts her, nauseates her and all too often sends her to the hospital for stays that stretch days or weeks…. Emme’s family has traveled to Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, Minnesota and elsewhere, searching for ways to ease this pain and find the cause behind it.

Turns out it was chronic pancreatitis.  This is rare for someone this young.  Nearly a dozen years ago, I was hospitalized and it was discovered I needed my gall bladder removed but first they needed to take care of my pancreatitis.  I was in my 40’s and miserable, not sure if I was going to survive.  I cannot imagine the life that 4 year old Emme has lived so far.

Tuesday 1/31/17 everything changed.  Emme underwent a surgery that was scheduled to last 18 hours.  I know this because of Facebook and the sharing that Chris and his wife have done on social media. Look for the hashtag #Emmesmiles to see this brave little girl.

Despite some complications during the surgery, recovery is going well as I type these words at 3:30pm on 2/1/17.  Keep them all in your hearts and prayers.